Kathina AGM 2018

How is your heart?

Be less busy!

I called a friend a few days ago. Just to ask her how she was doing, how her family was. Her response “I’m so busy with this and that. I have so much going on.” Not long after that I ran into another friend and asked him how he was. Again,  same response: “I’ve been so busy, always so much to do.”

Both their tones so overwhelmed and plain tired. Children are feeling this way as well. I recently tried to tee up a visit with one of my youngest sons friends. When I asked his mother for his availability she scrolled through her outlook phone planner and said her child was only available in no less than four weeks’ time as he was “busy” with rugby, debating, tutoring…etc. Continue reading

Reflection on death as a protection

Positivity, negativity, pessimism, optimism are mental states. Mental states are Annicang according to Lord Buddha. Annicang meaning impermanent, transient, fleeting, coming and going – no substance.

On the straight or curvy line from birth to death, whatever outcome occurs in the experience of life leads to and ends up in death. Death is the outcome of life or more correctly death is the condition ( same say fabrication) of birth. A condition or fabrication namely called ‘Sankhara’ (Pali italics not included) – are said to be Annicang (impermanent) by Lord Buddha – Sabbe (all) Sankhara Annica’ti. To go further whatever is Annicang is Anatta- Not self. So if mental state is not-self, not ours why do we cling and grasp? Continue reading

Patience and Persistence!

Patience and Persistence

At kindy we have two hermit crabs, and in these past two weeks they have opted to change their shells twice. They are persistent at finding the right fit. However, are they happy now? Do their shells fit? Will they want to move again?  Their behaviour caused me to reflect on an individual’s very own life and how finding and recreating ourselves is in fact a life long journey that are marked out by experiences. Many will say “will this ever be right? Will we ever get “there”? Continue reading